suddenly realised how inter-racial marriages in Indonesia are such a no- no thing. my chinese catholic indonesian cousin has been together with this malay guy for four years.. and finally, they have decided to get married.. alright all along it has been a hush hush relationship, but even so, for me, even if i heard of such news, i would be happy! i mean, a happy couple are finally going to get married. they can accept each others' differences, find happiness with one another.. i know parents and family members have some say in one's marriage..but at the end of the day, the union is still between the both of them! what's wrong with inter-racial marriages? What the couple need right now is the blessings of family and friends, not discrimination or whatsoever. There has already been one inter-racial marriage in the family. things being ugly at first, but eventually accepted. Why must they allow the same situation to occur again. A marriage is supposed to be a joyous occassion, the union of 2 persons in love. I know i have no say, just stating my opinions here..but i hope that eventually, they will be able to get the blessings from my side of the family. well each family has their own set of problems to deal with, and i have to say this, i am already more fortunate than most people are.

ok, done with my random ramblings of the day.. take care people! (=

hello world!
(= i'm back! it's been some time before i found time to blog.. exams are finally over.. one year since i last took exams then went on IA.. well i have to say that it's a good feel that it's finally over, for now... but means..FYP continues! I highly suspect i'd be doing something similar to starting all over again.. maybe not to that extent..but it has been some time.. i cant really rmb much of it.. =( think wei li will kill me.. so will joachim.. sigh.
ok the papers were killers... in my account.. but exams have never been easy for me anymore since jc.. sigh. cant seem to remember much of what i read anymore..and so it seems..i know that they say as long as i've tried my best, it's enough.. but.. study so much, so hard..but still. =( enough said.. let's get on with the unhappy things. ha.
EXAMS are over for now! jump jump jump! went to raffles city with another 8 coursemates today.. for lunch sit down n chat..it has been some time sia.. haha! but stone...stone.. stone...joanne is tired. the long hours as 趴地虎has taken its toll on her.. bah..
ok.. going to jio as many people out as possible the next few days before i start on FYP again.. need to relax one corner for abit.. i'm going to miss some people..especially those who are going to graduate this semester.. * =(( . but all the best.. find a job real soon! (:
shall blog again soon! take care everyone!

叛逆..haha i guess that's one of the main reasons... wanting to go against. but otherwise... it's passion..doing something that i yearned to be doing... i dont know when the cat will be let out of the bag..or ignorance is being feigned but till then..

exams are around the corner..less than a week to go..everyone...must jia you ok? (: those who are leaving this semester.. work harder!!your last exams alr! (: blehhh.

went to catch avenue q w vril yik n violet... really nice musical..must catch it if you all have the chance ok? though i finally understood how come it's NC 16.. really had some crude content..*stunned* hahaa~

my parents n lil bro has returned from bengkulu.. other than my lil bro having diarrhoea on duno which day i guess they had fun.. ? exchanged smses with lil bro.. got into the triple science combination for sec 3... congrats man.. though i always pour cold water... hahaa.. i always believed he is damn smart.. (of cos la...he's joanne's brother lei)..hahahaa...

late..going off to bed..i know...another random post..

love...or waste or time... it's a fine line in between..
but you're* worth the time...

已好久没有更新部落格了。。
虽然很多感言，但因忙碌而‘忽略’了这里。
用华文的理由很多，但在此不方便透露。 想知道来问我吧！
哈哈。相信此刻只有男友只道原因。
也已好久好几没用华语沟通，请原谅错字与用词不当！
最近发现其实很多思想很不成熟。。可能我没资格说他们，但是这是我的想法，不认同的人,too bad. 很多人可以为感情付出一切，也可以因为一段断了的感情而不折手段。
‘你’的一举一动已暴露了你那丑陋的一面。很庆幸你只不过是陌路。我想对你说的是，我不会在你面前做戏。也不会伪装为你的朋友。每个人都有个的脾气有限，别怪我人狠心。
life's been ok..how's yours?
(: joanne wants you all to know..that she's thankful for the many wonderful friends..(:
to vril n yun who has been listening to my complaints lately..(:
and buddy yip...for your msges..(:
and..whoever matters to her..(:
wen, chak, ah bai,...=P
i miss 04/03
work hard for exams everyone!

and..
darling leeee...hahaa
i not 霸道ok！haha. complaining to you and getting your fridge filled up with chocs for me..makes me feel..very 幸福! yayness. hee.. *hugs <3*